It helps to plan ahead to ease the burden on your loves ones.  You can design your headstone the way you want it to be.  Personalize your memorial exactly the way you would like to be remembered or something you loved in your life that no one else would have thought to engrave.  A special design may also be created to produce a memorial of a more personal or distinctive nature.  Whatever the design may be, a monument can clearly express your feelings by adding symbols, religious emblems, image, flowers epitaphs, scripture or even poems.